Tuesday 3 April 2012

Good Girls Don't....

So I grew up in an environment where sex was something we didn't really talk about, but we knew there were some rules. They usually started with 'Good girls don't' followed by a phrase that should have been a mystery to us.

Growing older in a stable and very vanilla marriage none of those things were tried, except oral and that was something I decided I didn't actualy like. Moving into a different kind of relationship has opened my eyes and my mind to the possibilities of pleasure. This good girl has now tried some of those forbidden fruits.

Toys now have a major part in our sex life, I have built a collection of them and have my favourites. I started to review them so that other women can also experience the pleasure that good sex can bring.

The biggest taboo that I have tried is anal sex, Good Girls only have sex to have babies so anal was considered too dirty to even speak about. Something that only happened in porn, I now realise that being closed minded about it limits our enjoyment of each other's bodies. Done well it can be mind blowing, but it is something which takes trust and understanding of each other. Questions about anal regularly appear on sex related forums and ignorance isnt bliss it's dangerous.

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